Hi there.

Nur Iman Bin Salim
18 to 19
Scorpio

Singaporean Malay Muslim
Misfit of society

Yishun Primary
Yishun Town Secondary
Republic Polytechnic


ME

Republic Rugby
Arsenal FC
NZABs
Chaiya


Not Realistic?

Hoodie

NIKON DSLR D700
Adidas Torpedo X-ite rugby ball
Nike T90 Laser II FG
Nike HJ020 Flight Headphones
120GB iPod Classic
an External HDD
Represent RP Rugby in POL-ITE

chanced upon this while blog hopping. from a guy's blog. enjoy reading. =]

Love Maintenance

Below is something I shared with a friend of mine who has started a new relationship.. After being through not too much and not too little things in life and in the aspect of relationship.. I would say the following is my believe and core principles in terms of maintaining a relationship.

The key to making a rs work, other than believing in God, is for both parties to put in not equivalent but uncomparable and unconditional effort all the time.

Gettin together is easy, but maintainin the rs is tough in all ways. Still, it doesn't mean u can't take it w a pinch of salt(like for me, a guy with unlimited desire and hunger for wisdom and knowledge, i take it as an endless opportunity for me to learn about another fellow human being who has such great passion for me that I can truly appreciate)..

However, Constant exploration and understanding shouldn't only come from the initial spark of discovering someone new to be your girl or boyfriend but it should come also from each of his own effort to carry on the exploration. Especially when the rs has matured a little and things starts to feel mundane in one way or another.

In my personal opinion, I strongly believe that there're countless things to find out abt each other no matter how deeply n thorough u already know each other inside out. Reason being We're ALL human, the MOST complex living species on earth.

The only ticket that you can buy to go to the place or mundane/boredom/"everyday same thing same person same everything..." is the ticket of "Stereotypism".

Once you start to stereotype.. everything starts to get boring because all you can think of about each other starts with "he is like that one.. thats why he ALWAYS like that.. he FOREVER like that one la..". If you're reading this and you're in this situation now, I would like to knock some sense out of YOU. Who do you think you are to know him or her inside out? Are you LIVING as himself or herself? Or are you simply SOMEONE ELSE who stays VERY close to him/her and watching him/her do his/her stuff and then form YOUR OWN Perception of what he or she is? Whatever we see of one another is OUR perception, we can't deny but stereotyping with That perception means doomsday or BOREDOM day because you already assume everything's the same and going to be the same as what you SEE now what.

Also, I'd add this following quote of myself:
"The feelin of having nothing to discover comes from the fact that there are still things you haven't uncover. And by the fact that you have not uncover them, you do not know about them thus it is NOT Nothing. Ultimately, its up to your own effort and initiative to keep up the discovery process.

"Trust me. Its fun :)

Peace,
Del

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crawl ya'll ltr!

peace